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“You should never forget your roots and be proud of where you are coming from.

Be kind to people.

Keep things simple and positive – don’t overthink.

Dare to lead.

Use your creativity and forget about fear – it can stop you from being brave.”

This isn’t a quotation from a motivational text. These are the thoughts and values of a real person who is guided by them. This is a real-life wisdom gained gradually, in time, after a long process of trial and error. This story is about Dorina Calistru – one more member of the Moldovan diaspora who tried her luck abroad. No, she actually didn’t try her luck, she made her own luck through determination and a lot of work.

About being an immigrant in London

First, it’s never easy to emigrate from your own country, establish abroad, get adapted and build a new life there. It is an axiom with almost no exceptions applied to the Dorina’s case as well.

When she first moved to London, her life became very intense. “My first job was a lot of long working hours. Coming from a comfort where you are travelling everywhere by car to a long commute on a daily basis was quite unusual for me. Before I moved, everyone was asking how I would adapt to the change of climate. Honestly, it was the last thing I could think about but one time it hit me so badly… I lost my voice and for 4 days and couldn’t speak at all, being forced to take recovery pills for orators. Before, I didn’t even know they existed.”

London still seems a huge and very busy city to her. “I couldn’t get used to the fact that you have to plan way in advance to go somewhere. Sometimes, it can take you 1 hour and a half to arrive to a certain destination,” she explains.

However, there were things about London that made her fall in love with this city. “It is very diverse. I like that this city never sleeps. Everything is alive here even if it’s rainy and cloudy. It’s easy to travel from London to Europe and the US. The most important thing: I am only 3 hours flight away from Moldova. At this moment, I have everything that makes me happy here, except the sun (laughing) – I would prefer a little bit more sun.”

Before moving to Great Britain, Dorina did her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in Romania, worked there, and had a student exchange experience in Poland. “One of my biggest passions is to discover new cultures and meet people from all over the globe. I consider that nationality, race and gender should never influence our capabilities of making new friends,” she states.

About her dream job

“I was dreaming as a teenager about a job where I can use all my skills and, at the same time, see the world. So, here it is! It didn’t take so long!”

Her dream job didn’t just come to hand though. Dorina had a few assignments during her studies – internships and volunteering experience. Afterwards, she worked for two years as a resource associate at a consulting company in London. “Most probably all those experiences where guiding me to my actual position and I do understand that everything happens for a reason. We can definitely call them ‘finding my path’.”

Nowadays, Dorina is a territory manager at Cisco Meraki – the Cloud Networking Department of Cisco company. “My role includes working closely with partners across Central Europe and driving strategy for the region, as well as growing new business opportunities. We are focused on channel sales for Cisco Cloud based products and help our clients to discover how cloud management offers greater reliability, easier management, and a lower TCO (Total Cost of Ownership).”

According to Dorina, a successful territory manager should know how to leverage and engage with internal resources like technical engineering, support and the company’s teams from different countries. “Basically, it’s a business development management inside out,” as she says.

Dorina mentions that the most valuable asset of the company she is working in is its culture. “In our office I feel like home. Here, new ideas are always embraced and supported by higher managers. If it works, it’s great, and if not, we are taking it as a lesson not as a failure.” The culture which is based on diversity tolerance and continuous empowerment is what, as Dorina states, inspires to become a better version of oneself. “I really wanted to become certified and to improve my technical skills. When I brought this into my manager’s attention, after 2 weeks I was enrolled in a strong technical training and passed a network operator exam. Later on, this converted into a lot of success during my daily activity and helped me to organise notable events,” discloses Dorina.

Among other exciting things mentioned by our protagonist were the outstanding conferences, the visited countries and cities during the business trips, and the fascinating colleagues from all around the globe whom she met. Every year Cisco Team goes to Las Vegas for almost one-week conference opening on MGM stage like in movies. We listen to the greatest speakers. Last year, we had the legendary basketball player Shaquille O’Neal.”

About her life outside work

Dorina loves to travel. “I am away most of the time – by car, by plane, by train it doesn’t matter.” She is also involved in creative activities such as painting, decorating or crafting. Dorina does a lot of experiments while cooking. “Even though most of people don’t believe me, especially those who know me dressed in smart outfits, but I do love to cook.” Sports like gym, tennis, squash represent for her the best way to release stress and tiredness.

“Even in business trips you can find in my luggage a pair of trainers and some gym clothes. It’s not easy, but otherwise you can’t be fit without true discipline.”

Still, the greatest pleasure for her is to come back to Moldova during holidays. “My parents still live in the same house where I grew up and when I arrive home it’s like going back to my childhood.” Currently, she is home for Easter. “Being reunited all together is priceless. It’s definitely a form of therapy.”

Agritourism, wine tasting, going to cultural events, singing and dancing “hora” – one of the traditional dances in Moldova – are the usual things Dorina does together with her family back home. “Food, wine, nature in Moldova can’t be compared with other countries. This is my home and I love it with all my heart. I do want to come back as much as I can,” she states.

About setting an example

Dorina already walked the path that some women, including those from the Republic of Moldova, are only dreaming of. She managed to build a successful career, lives in a city of all possibilities and enjoys an active social life. We asked her to make some recommendations for her followers and successors and here is her message:

“Never stop growing and be proud of you no matter what – these are the words I grew up with and for that I want to thank my inspiration, a wonderful woman in my life – my mom. People who are proud of themselves tend to have passions in life, feel content and set good examples for others. Being proud of yourself requires envisioning the person you would like to become and making your best efforts to grow as an individual. Don’t think that if you are a woman you can’t do it. You can do it in a fantastic way. Problems arise when women are trying to run away from opportunities with big responsibilities, because that is the ultimate masculine-coded authority position and we subconsciously take steps back. We shouldn’t. Keep working for your dreams and do it confidently.”

Dorina also recommended a book that was, in turn, recommended to her by Kirsty Hair, one of the Cisco Meraki leaders, and that could open some secrets for success – “Lean In” by Sheryl Sandberg.

When asked if she would change anything, Dorina said a confident ‘no’. “Everything that happened in my life was definitely given for a good reason.”

Photos: Facebook/ Dorina Calistru

Jurnalistă that speaks English very well. De aia Maria are grijă că prietenii noștri străini să nu piardă nicio informație valoroasă despre actualitatea din Moldova.

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“They are not needy, but they need help”. How Moldovan volunteers try to create a safe environment for the Ukrainian refugees

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At the Government’s ground floor, the phones ring constantly, the laptop screens never reach standby. In one corner of the room there is a logistics planning meeting, someone has a call on Zoom with partners and donors, someone else finally managed to take a cookie and make some coffee. Everyone is exhausted and have sleepy red eyes, but the volunteers still have a lot of energy and dedication to help in creating a safe place for the Ukrainian refugees.

“It’s like a continuous bustle just so you won’t read the news. You get home sometimes and you don’t have time for news, and that somehow helps. It’s a kind of solidarity and mutual support,” says Vlada Ciobanu, volunteer responsible for communication and fundraising.

The volunteers group was formed from the very first day of war. A Facebook page was created, where all types of messages immediately started to flow: “I offer accommodation”, “I want to help”, “I want to get involved”, “Where can I bring the products?”, “I have a car and I can go to the customs”. Soon, the authorities also started asking for volunteers’ support. Now they all work together, coordinate activities and try to find solutions to the most difficult problems.

Is accommodation needed for 10, 200 or 800 people? Do you need transportation to the customs? Does anyone want to deliver 3 tons of apples and does not know where? Do you need medicine or mobile toilets? All these questions require prompt answers and actions. Blankets, sheets, diapers, hygiene products, food, clothes – people bring everything, and someone needs to quickly find ways of delivering them to those who need them.

Sometimes this collaboration is difficult, involves a lot of bureaucracy, and it can be difficult to get answers on time. “Republic of Moldova has never faced such a large influx of refugees and, probably because nobody thought this could happen, a mechanism of this kind of crisis has not been developed. Due to the absence of such a mechanism that the state should have created, we, the volunteers, intervened and tried to help in a practical way for the spontaneous and on the sport solutions of the problems,” mentions Ecaterina Luțișina, volunteer responsible for the refugees’ accommodation.

Ana Maria Popa, one of the founders of the group “Help Ukrainians in Moldova/SOS Українці Молдовa” says that the toughest thing is to find time and have a clear mind in managing different procedures, although things still happen somehow naturally. Everyone is ready to intervene and help, to take on more responsibilities and to act immediately when needed. The biggest challenges arise when it is necessary to accommodate large families, people with special needs, for which alternative solutions must be identified.

Goods and donations

The volunteers try to cope with the high flow of requests for both accommodation and products of all kinds. “It came to me as a shock and a panic when I found out that both mothers who are now in Ukraine, as well as those who found refuge in our country are losing their milk because of stress. We are trying to fill an enormous need for milk powder, for which the demand is high and the stocks are decreasing”, says Steliana, the volunteer responsible for the distribution of goods from the donation centers.

Several centers have been set up to collect donations in all regions of Chisinau, and volunteers are redirecting the goods to where the refugees are. A system for processing and monitoring donations has already been established, while the volunteer drivers take over the order only according to a unique code.

Volunteers from the collection centers also do the inventory – the donated goods and the distributed goods. The rest is transported to Vatra deposit, from where it is distributed to the placement centers where more than 50 refugees are housed.

When they want to donate goods, but they don’t know what would be needed, people are urged to put themselves in the position of refugees and ask themselves what would they need most if they wake up overnight and have to hurriedly pack their bags and run away. Steliana wants to emphasise that “these people are not needy, but these people need help. They did not choose to end up in this situation.”

Furthermore, the volunteer Cristina Sîrbu seeks to identify producers and negotiate prices for products needed by refugees, thus mediating the procurement process for NGOs with which she collaborates, such as Caritas, World Children’s Fund, Polish Solidarity Fund, Lifting hands, Peace Corps and others.

One of the challenges she is facing now is the identifying a mattress manufacturer in the West, because the Moldovan mattress manufacturer that has been helping so far no longer has polyurethane, a raw material usually imported from Russia and Ukraine.

Cristina also needs to find solutions for the needs of the volunteer groups – phones, laptops, gsm connection and internet for a good carrying out of activities.

Hate messages

The most difficult thing for the communication team is to manage the hate messages on the social networks, which started to appear more often. “Even if there is some sort of dissatisfaction from the Ukrainian refugees and those who offer help, we live now in a very diverse society, there are different kind of people, and we act very differently under stress,” said Vlada Ciobanu.

Translation by Cătălina Bîrsanu

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#WorldForUkraine – a map that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against Russian aggression

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The international community and volunteers from all over te world have launched #WorldForUkraine as a platform that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against the Russian aggression. In a digital world – it is an interactive map of public support of Ukrainians under the hashtag #WorldForUkraine – rallies, flash mobs, protests around the world. In the physical dimension – it is your opportunity to take to the streets and declare: “No to Putin’s aggression, no to war.”

„Today, along with the political and military support, emotional connection with the civilized world and truthful information are extremely important for Ukraine. The power to do it is in your hands. Join the #WorldForUkraine project and contribute to the victorious battle against the bloodshed inflicted on Ukraine by the aggression of the Russian Federation”, says the „about the project” section of the platform.

Go to the streets — Tell people — Connect and Unite — Become POWERFUL

Volunteers have launched #WorldForUkraine as a platform that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against Russian aggression. In digital world – it is an INTERACTIVE MAP of public support of Ukrainians worldforukraine.net under the hashtag #WorldForUkraine – rallies, flash mobs, protests around the world. In the physical dimension – it is your opportunity to take to the streets and declare: “No to Putin’s aggression, no to war.” There you may find information about past and future rallies in your city in support of Ukraine. This is a permanent platform for Ukrainian diaspora and people all over the world concerned about the situation in Ukraine.

So here’s a couple of things you could do yourself to help:

* if there is a political rally in your city, then participate in it and write about it on social media with geolocation and the hashtag #WorldForUkraine

* if there are no rallies nearby, organize one in support of Ukraine yourself, write about it on social media with geolocation adding the hashtag #WorldForUkraine

The map will add information about gathering by #WorldForUkraine AUTOMATICALLY

Your voice now stronger THAN ever

All rallies are already here: https://worldforukraine.net

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How is Moldova managing the big influx of Ukrainian refugees? The authorities’ plan, explained 

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From 24th to 28th of February, 71 359 Ukrainian citizens entered the territory of Republic of Moldova. 33 173 of them left the country. As of this moment, there are 38 186 Ukrainian citizens in Moldova, who have arrived over the past 100 hours. 

The Moldovan people and authorities have organized themselves quickly from the first day of war between Russia and Ukraine. However, in the event of a prolonged armed conflict and a continuous influx of Ukrainian refugees, the efforts and donations need to be efficiently managed. Thus, we inquired about Moldova’s long-term plan and the state’s capacity to receive, host, and treat a bigger number of refugees. 

On February 26th, the Ministry of Labor and Social Protection of Moldova approved the Regulation of organization and functioning of the temporary Placement Center for refugees and the staffing and expenditure rules. According to the Regulation, the Centers will have the capacity of temporary hosting and feeding at least 20 persons, for a maximum of 3 months, with the possibility of extending this period. The Centers will also offer legal, social, psychological, and primary medical consultations to the refugees. The Center’s activity will be financed from budget allocations, under Article 19 of Provision no. 1 of the Exceptional Situations Commission from February 24th, 2022, and from other sources of funding that do not contravene applicable law.

The Ministry of Inner Affairs and the Government of Moldova facilitated the organization of the volunteers’ group “Moldova for Peace”.  Its purpose is to receive, offer assistance and accommodation to the Ukrainian refugees. The group is still working on creating a structure, registering and contacting volunteers, etc. It does not activate under a legal umbrella. 

Lilia Nenescu, one of the “Moldova for Peace” volunteers, said that the group consists of over 20 people. Other 1700 registered to volunteer by filling in this form, which is still available. The group consists of several departments: 

The volunteers’ department. Its members act as fixers: they’re responsible for connecting the people in need of assistance with the appropriate department. Some of the volunteers are located in the customs points. “The Ministry of Inner Affairs sends us every day the list of the customs points where our assistance is needed, and we mobilize the volunteers”, says Lilia Nenescu. 

The Goods Department manages all the goods donated by the Moldavian citizens. The donations are separated into categories: non-perishable foods and non-food supplies. The volunteers of this department sort the goods into packages to be distributed. 

The Government intends to collect all the donations in four locations. The National Agency for Food Safety and the National Agency for Public Health will ensure mechanisms to confirm that all the deposited goods comply with safety and quality regulations. 

The Service Department operates in 4 directions and needs the volunteer involvement of specialists in psychology, legal assistance (the majority of the refugees only have Ukrainian ID and birth certificates of their children); medical assistance; translation (a part of the refugees are not Ukrainian citizens). 

According to Elena Mudrîi, the spokesperson of the Ministry of Health, so far there is no data about the number of  Covid-19 positive refugees. She only mentioned two cases that needed outpatient medical assistance: a pregnant woman and the mother of a 4-day-old child. 

The Accommodation Department. The volunteers are waiting for the centralized and updated information from the Ministry of Labor about the institutions offering accommodation, besides the houses offered by individuals. 

The Transport Department consists of drivers organized in groups. They receive notifications about the number of people who need transportation from the customs points to the asylum centers for refugees.

The municipal authorities of Chișinău announced that the Ukrainian children refugees from the capital city will be enrolled in educational institutions. The authorities also intend to create Day-Care Centers for children, where they will be engaged in educational activities and will receive psychological assistance. Besides, the refugees from the municipal temporary accommodation centers receive individual and group counseling. 

In addition to this effort, a group of volunteers consisting of Ana Gurău, Ana Popapa, and Andrei Lutenco developed, with the help of Cristian Coșneanu, the UArefugees platform, synchronized with the responses from this form. On the first day, 943 people offered their help using the form, and 110 people asked for help. According to Anna Gurău, the volunteers communicate with the Government in order to update the platform with the missing data. 

Translation from Romanian by Natalia Graur

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