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Placing Orphans With Families Meets Resistance in Moldova

Reading Time: 4 minutesThirty-seven children live in the run-down state orphanage in the village of Cupcui, some 80 kilometers south of Moldovas capital, Chisinau. Surprisingly, only one of them is actually an orphan.

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By Elena Moldoveanu

CHISINAU — Thirty-seven children live in the run-down state orphanage in the village of Cupcui, some 80 kilometers south of Moldova’s capital, Chisinau. Surprisingly, only one of them is actually an orphan.

Many children in Moldovan state institutions have been placed there by their parents, motivated by grinding poverty, alcoholism, or other family problems and encouraged by a paternalistic state. According to official figures, more than 90 percent of the children in Moldova’s state institutions nationwide have at least one living parent.

Vasilica Bejan is one of 16 children who left the Cupcui orphanage in the last year under a project, spearheaded by the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) and the European Union, which aims to reunite children with their families, when possible, or place them in foster homes.

Life at home in the village of Tochile-Raducani is hard for 12-year-old Vasilica, but he prefers it to the orphanage.

"I get up at 6 a.m., eat a bowl of borscht, and go to school. I love football, which I fell in love with back at the orphanage in Cupcui. But when I was there, I really missed my mother and longed to come home," Vasilica says.

"Now I see that things are harder here, but I still don’t want to go back to the orphanage. At home I help my mother — carry water from the well, chop firewood, keep the stove heated. We don’t eat well — borscht in the morning and again for lunch. It’s hard, but it’s better at home."

Vasilica’s mother, Valentina, recalls how government officials persuaded her five years ago to hand her son over to the orphanage. They told her the state could give him all the things she was unable to provide — a stable upbringing, education, reliable food and shelter.

Even now, she seems uncertain about where life would be best for Vasilica.

"We are poor people. We have no land, and nothing to live on," she says. "Last year a commission from Chisinau came and told us that we should take Vasilica home, because it would be better for him at home."

Lacking Support

The goal of the UNICEF/EU program is to place half of Moldova’s 12,000 state wards with families by 2012, to help more children experience the nurturing of personal family care over the isolation and neglect that can occur in state orphanages.

With 2.5 million euros ($3.5 million) in EU financing for the first year of the program in 2007, it got off to a quick start. Social workers gave financial aid to families, helped them renovate their homes to provide better conditions for the children, and even purchased cows so the families could have fresh milk.

It is based on a similar, EU-funded program in Romania that saw more than 27,000 children removed from state institutions between 1999 and 2006 and placed with their parents or in foster homes.

But since its initial funding ended, the Moldova program has largely ground to a halt. The state provides minimal financial aid to families who take their children back — about three euros a month, plus an annual payment for school supplies and discounted utilities rates. Families that agree to take in foster children are eligible to receive 50 euros a month.

But most families agree this assistance is far too little, barely enabling them to provide bread to the children. By contrast, a recent nongovernmental study financed by the EU determined that Moldova spends about 630 euros ($890) a year for each child living in state institutions.

Weaned From The State

The program to remove children from state care is administered by a nongovernmental organization called Children, Society, and Families. Project coordinator Lorena Ghiza says Moldova’s deeply ingrained culture of relying on the state is as much an obstacle to the program as the country’s economic hardship.

"We have a lot of work to do, because we need certain shifts in mentality," Ghiza says. She says that many families are "used to the idea that the state must take care of their children — educate them, feed them, and clothe them. Some of them resist us, saying things like ‘There is only one year left [until the child becomes a legal adult], so what’s the point of removing the child from his familiar environment and interrupting his studies?’

"We are trying to explain that they brought this child into the world, and that comes with certain responsibilities. Every child has the right to a family. It isn’t the state that should be raising these children.”

The initiative is also meeting resistance from some orphanage employees. Maria Buza, the director of the Cupcui orphanage, acknowledges that the new program has the best interests of the children in mind, but she still has reservations.

"I have worked here since this orphanage first opened, and I’m sad that I will have to see it closed down," Buza says. "The workers here are worried that they will be left without jobs. After all, this is their livelihood."

But one thing is clear: given a choice, the children want to be with their families.

"My mother brought me here because I was hanging out on the streets. We didn’t have any decent life at home," says Ionut, 16, one of the children still living at the Cupcui orphanage.

"But all the same I think that home is better, because it is warmer there. I want to live together with my mama and my brother."

Other children at the orphanage agree:

First child: "My mother brought me here. I was on the streets."

Second child: "It’s better at home. I would like to go to my own family."

Third: "I want to go home."

Fourth: "At home, I have my mother. I have my brothers."

RFE/RL Moldovan Service correspondent Margareta Apostol and RFE/RL correspondent Robert Coalson contributed to this report

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“They are not needy, but they need help”. How Moldovan volunteers try to create a safe environment for the Ukrainian refugees

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At the Government’s ground floor, the phones ring constantly, the laptop screens never reach standby. In one corner of the room there is a logistics planning meeting, someone has a call on Zoom with partners and donors, someone else finally managed to take a cookie and make some coffee. Everyone is exhausted and have sleepy red eyes, but the volunteers still have a lot of energy and dedication to help in creating a safe place for the Ukrainian refugees.

“It’s like a continuous bustle just so you won’t read the news. You get home sometimes and you don’t have time for news, and that somehow helps. It’s a kind of solidarity and mutual support,” says Vlada Ciobanu, volunteer responsible for communication and fundraising.

The volunteers group was formed from the very first day of war. A Facebook page was created, where all types of messages immediately started to flow: “I offer accommodation”, “I want to help”, “I want to get involved”, “Where can I bring the products?”, “I have a car and I can go to the customs”. Soon, the authorities also started asking for volunteers’ support. Now they all work together, coordinate activities and try to find solutions to the most difficult problems.

Is accommodation needed for 10, 200 or 800 people? Do you need transportation to the customs? Does anyone want to deliver 3 tons of apples and does not know where? Do you need medicine or mobile toilets? All these questions require prompt answers and actions. Blankets, sheets, diapers, hygiene products, food, clothes – people bring everything, and someone needs to quickly find ways of delivering them to those who need them.

Sometimes this collaboration is difficult, involves a lot of bureaucracy, and it can be difficult to get answers on time. “Republic of Moldova has never faced such a large influx of refugees and, probably because nobody thought this could happen, a mechanism of this kind of crisis has not been developed. Due to the absence of such a mechanism that the state should have created, we, the volunteers, intervened and tried to help in a practical way for the spontaneous and on the sport solutions of the problems,” mentions Ecaterina Luțișina, volunteer responsible for the refugees’ accommodation.

Ana Maria Popa, one of the founders of the group “Help Ukrainians in Moldova/SOS Українці Молдовa” says that the toughest thing is to find time and have a clear mind in managing different procedures, although things still happen somehow naturally. Everyone is ready to intervene and help, to take on more responsibilities and to act immediately when needed. The biggest challenges arise when it is necessary to accommodate large families, people with special needs, for which alternative solutions must be identified.

Goods and donations

The volunteers try to cope with the high flow of requests for both accommodation and products of all kinds. “It came to me as a shock and a panic when I found out that both mothers who are now in Ukraine, as well as those who found refuge in our country are losing their milk because of stress. We are trying to fill an enormous need for milk powder, for which the demand is high and the stocks are decreasing”, says Steliana, the volunteer responsible for the distribution of goods from the donation centers.

Several centers have been set up to collect donations in all regions of Chisinau, and volunteers are redirecting the goods to where the refugees are. A system for processing and monitoring donations has already been established, while the volunteer drivers take over the order only according to a unique code.

Volunteers from the collection centers also do the inventory – the donated goods and the distributed goods. The rest is transported to Vatra deposit, from where it is distributed to the placement centers where more than 50 refugees are housed.

When they want to donate goods, but they don’t know what would be needed, people are urged to put themselves in the position of refugees and ask themselves what would they need most if they wake up overnight and have to hurriedly pack their bags and run away. Steliana wants to emphasise that “these people are not needy, but these people need help. They did not choose to end up in this situation.”

Furthermore, the volunteer Cristina Sîrbu seeks to identify producers and negotiate prices for products needed by refugees, thus mediating the procurement process for NGOs with which she collaborates, such as Caritas, World Children’s Fund, Polish Solidarity Fund, Lifting hands, Peace Corps and others.

One of the challenges she is facing now is the identifying a mattress manufacturer in the West, because the Moldovan mattress manufacturer that has been helping so far no longer has polyurethane, a raw material usually imported from Russia and Ukraine.

Cristina also needs to find solutions for the needs of the volunteer groups – phones, laptops, gsm connection and internet for a good carrying out of activities.

Hate messages

The most difficult thing for the communication team is to manage the hate messages on the social networks, which started to appear more often. “Even if there is some sort of dissatisfaction from the Ukrainian refugees and those who offer help, we live now in a very diverse society, there are different kind of people, and we act very differently under stress,” said Vlada Ciobanu.

Translation by Cătălina Bîrsanu

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#WorldForUkraine – a map that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against Russian aggression

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The international community and volunteers from all over te world have launched #WorldForUkraine as a platform that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against the Russian aggression. In a digital world – it is an interactive map of public support of Ukrainians under the hashtag #WorldForUkraine – rallies, flash mobs, protests around the world. In the physical dimension – it is your opportunity to take to the streets and declare: “No to Putin’s aggression, no to war.”

„Today, along with the political and military support, emotional connection with the civilized world and truthful information are extremely important for Ukraine. The power to do it is in your hands. Join the #WorldForUkraine project and contribute to the victorious battle against the bloodshed inflicted on Ukraine by the aggression of the Russian Federation”, says the „about the project” section of the platform.

Go to the streets — Tell people — Connect and Unite — Become POWERFUL

Volunteers have launched #WorldForUkraine as a platform that shows the magnitude of the world’s actions against Russian aggression. In digital world – it is an INTERACTIVE MAP of public support of Ukrainians worldforukraine.net under the hashtag #WorldForUkraine – rallies, flash mobs, protests around the world. In the physical dimension – it is your opportunity to take to the streets and declare: “No to Putin’s aggression, no to war.” There you may find information about past and future rallies in your city in support of Ukraine. This is a permanent platform for Ukrainian diaspora and people all over the world concerned about the situation in Ukraine.

So here’s a couple of things you could do yourself to help:

* if there is a political rally in your city, then participate in it and write about it on social media with geolocation and the hashtag #WorldForUkraine

* if there are no rallies nearby, organize one in support of Ukraine yourself, write about it on social media with geolocation adding the hashtag #WorldForUkraine

The map will add information about gathering by #WorldForUkraine AUTOMATICALLY

Your voice now stronger THAN ever

All rallies are already here: https://worldforukraine.net

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How is Moldova managing the big influx of Ukrainian refugees? The authorities’ plan, explained 

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From 24th to 28th of February, 71 359 Ukrainian citizens entered the territory of Republic of Moldova. 33 173 of them left the country. As of this moment, there are 38 186 Ukrainian citizens in Moldova, who have arrived over the past 100 hours. 

The Moldovan people and authorities have organized themselves quickly from the first day of war between Russia and Ukraine. However, in the event of a prolonged armed conflict and a continuous influx of Ukrainian refugees, the efforts and donations need to be efficiently managed. Thus, we inquired about Moldova’s long-term plan and the state’s capacity to receive, host, and treat a bigger number of refugees. 

On February 26th, the Ministry of Labor and Social Protection of Moldova approved the Regulation of organization and functioning of the temporary Placement Center for refugees and the staffing and expenditure rules. According to the Regulation, the Centers will have the capacity of temporary hosting and feeding at least 20 persons, for a maximum of 3 months, with the possibility of extending this period. The Centers will also offer legal, social, psychological, and primary medical consultations to the refugees. The Center’s activity will be financed from budget allocations, under Article 19 of Provision no. 1 of the Exceptional Situations Commission from February 24th, 2022, and from other sources of funding that do not contravene applicable law.

The Ministry of Inner Affairs and the Government of Moldova facilitated the organization of the volunteers’ group “Moldova for Peace”.  Its purpose is to receive, offer assistance and accommodation to the Ukrainian refugees. The group is still working on creating a structure, registering and contacting volunteers, etc. It does not activate under a legal umbrella. 

Lilia Nenescu, one of the “Moldova for Peace” volunteers, said that the group consists of over 20 people. Other 1700 registered to volunteer by filling in this form, which is still available. The group consists of several departments: 

The volunteers’ department. Its members act as fixers: they’re responsible for connecting the people in need of assistance with the appropriate department. Some of the volunteers are located in the customs points. “The Ministry of Inner Affairs sends us every day the list of the customs points where our assistance is needed, and we mobilize the volunteers”, says Lilia Nenescu. 

The Goods Department manages all the goods donated by the Moldavian citizens. The donations are separated into categories: non-perishable foods and non-food supplies. The volunteers of this department sort the goods into packages to be distributed. 

The Government intends to collect all the donations in four locations. The National Agency for Food Safety and the National Agency for Public Health will ensure mechanisms to confirm that all the deposited goods comply with safety and quality regulations. 

The Service Department operates in 4 directions and needs the volunteer involvement of specialists in psychology, legal assistance (the majority of the refugees only have Ukrainian ID and birth certificates of their children); medical assistance; translation (a part of the refugees are not Ukrainian citizens). 

According to Elena Mudrîi, the spokesperson of the Ministry of Health, so far there is no data about the number of  Covid-19 positive refugees. She only mentioned two cases that needed outpatient medical assistance: a pregnant woman and the mother of a 4-day-old child. 

The Accommodation Department. The volunteers are waiting for the centralized and updated information from the Ministry of Labor about the institutions offering accommodation, besides the houses offered by individuals. 

The Transport Department consists of drivers organized in groups. They receive notifications about the number of people who need transportation from the customs points to the asylum centers for refugees.

The municipal authorities of Chișinău announced that the Ukrainian children refugees from the capital city will be enrolled in educational institutions. The authorities also intend to create Day-Care Centers for children, where they will be engaged in educational activities and will receive psychological assistance. Besides, the refugees from the municipal temporary accommodation centers receive individual and group counseling. 

In addition to this effort, a group of volunteers consisting of Ana Gurău, Ana Popapa, and Andrei Lutenco developed, with the help of Cristian Coșneanu, the UArefugees platform, synchronized with the responses from this form. On the first day, 943 people offered their help using the form, and 110 people asked for help. According to Anna Gurău, the volunteers communicate with the Government in order to update the platform with the missing data. 

Translation from Romanian by Natalia Graur

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